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Mommy Blogger Love: the Parenting Passageway

Monday, December 20th, 2010

For any of my readers curious about the Waldorf lifestyle, parenting and homeschool approach, I’d like to share a mommy blogger who I’ve enjoyed following for quite awhile now.  Carrie’s blog “the Parenting Passageway:  Peaceful Parenting for a Hectic World” is a thoughtful, warm place that fleshes out the everyday challenges of mindful parenting in a very real and authentic way.

Parenting is indeed one of the most vital roles of our lives.  And, because if it’s very importance it is so easy to disagree, even among friends.  I find in the Parenting Passageway pictures of parenting that at the very least offer food for thought and more often challenge and inspire me to parent to my fullest.

Here is a collection of her posts on Baby & Toddlers and a collection on Gentle Discipline. And, an article “Cultivating Gratitude in Children“, which is particularly well-suited for this time of year.

Thank-you, Carrie, for keeping up your work!

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Mommy Blogger Love! Eco-Novice: Going Green Gradually

Monday, September 13th, 2010

When I discovered Betsy’s blog about “going green gradually”, it struck a cord.  Not only does she have so many helpful articles, but she describes this lifestyle as a journey, even in her title.  So true!  No one has this all figured out.  No matter where you are on the green spectrum, it’s all about taking another step.

I asked Betsy to share with us a little about her family and what got her started on this journey:

I am a SAHM to a 3-year-old and a 1-year-old.  I was only as interested in being green as your average gal until I had kids.  Not even pregnancy brought it to the forefront of my mind.   But when my first baby sucked on my hair, I wondered, “What’s in my leave-in conditioner?”  When he sucked on the floor, I wondered, “What’s in my cleaner?”  When I started feeding him solid foods, I wondered, “How safe are pesticides for infants?”  When I opened his disposable diaper on a sweltering day and felt a wave of heat come out I thought, “Maybe I’ll try cloth diapers after all.”  So, really the birth of my first child was what really got me started.

I spent hours and hours on the computer researching safer, more natural options with my first baby on my lap.  I had just left a job in policy research, so I was still in the research mode.  And I was worried.  And a bit obsessed.  Eventually, I chilled out.  But I started my blog a few years later because I wanted somewhere to dump all that information I’d accumulated in my head, and I figured that someone else might as well benefit from all the research I did.

Thanks, Betsy!  Here are a few of her useful articles:

10 Easiest Ways to Reduce Toxins in Your Home

Quiz:  Are Cloth Diapers for You?

Two Rules for Feeding Your Baby

Non-Toxic Antibacterial Soap

Favorite Potty Training Stuff

I also asked Betsy what she’s working on these days as she continues to go green.

Right now I am trying my hardest to ditch non-stick for cast iron.  I have wanted to to this for years and I finally bought the cast iron and hid my nonstick in the garage, but it’s been hard, especially since we love eggs at my house.

Ah, yes.  We use the new non-stick Green Pans, since we were gifted them for Christmas.  They’re working out well, but I’m sure that cast iron is even healthier.  One thing you might hate to realize is that electric griddles and waffle makers are also non-stick.  I’d love to find easy, healthy options for those too.  But, one step at a time!

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Mommy Blogger Love: Progressive Pioneer

Monday, August 16th, 2010

Progressive Pioneer is one of my regular reads.  I love this blog for how well-rounded it is.  From snapshots of Amy’s life as a mom to tutorials and links for things to “make and do”, Progressive Pioneer has introduced me to many ideas that just “fit” who I am.

Amy is babymooning with her newborn.   So rather than interviewing her, I thought I’d share with you this thought-provoking post.  It’s a perfect introduction to her blog!  Enjoy.

What is a Progressive Pioneer?

Clothesline Sometimes the most progressive ideas are the oldest and simplest, the ones that took place 100 years ago, when no one saw anything revolutionary about them at all.  Today there are so many parenting options, so many ways to feed, clothe and care for our children.  Many spring from media moguls and business tycoons, others are born in laboratories and research centers.  In the midst of all these high tech, color coordinated, safety tested, pediatrician recommended options, the most radical choice can be to simply say, “No thanks.”

When we trust our intuition, and look within, rather than to external sources for the answers, we will often find that the simplest solutions are best.  Why feed our babies deconstructed, vitamin-fortified, puffed cereals when we can simply cook up some nice, hot oatmeal, vitamins all intact?  Do we really need an entire car seat/carrier/stroller system that makes it entirely possible to go hours at a time without ever touching your baby?  Hold that sweet babe tight to your breast, wrapped in a simple cloth as millions of mothers have done before!  The latest parenting books urge us to let our babies “cry it out,” when every cell in our body tells us to fold them into our arms and soothe them to sleep.  Listen to your body!  Forget the cribs, the baby food, the play pens.  We women have been doing this for eons.  Choose to follow the examples of our pioneer forbears;  live simply, live close to the earth and close to your loved ones.

There is a line of reasoning called Occam’s razor that states that when faced with multiple theories, the simplest answer is usually the correct one.  So it is with mothering, and life in general.  When all the world is turning to the latest gadget, the latest expert advice, the latest health fad, we can pioneer the way back to our roots, back to simplicity.Sling

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Mommy Blogger Love: Rosie Girl Dreams

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

Rachel:  Yea!  Today I’m excited to be sharing with you one of my new bloggy friends.  It’s just amazing the way the web brings together like-minded folks.  When Jeanine of Rosie Girl Dreams found my sewing blog, Stitched in Color, we connected instantly.  From homeschooling to homebirthing, we share lots in common.  Jeanine, I’m excited to get to know you better.  Tell us about yourself!

Jeanine:  I’m mother to three little children. Yep, currently our household has three littles under the age of 5. Days and nights are filled with plenty of life, love and happiness. Yawn. And sometimes a bit of tiredness.

I was born and raised in sunny San Diego, but have chosen to live elsewhere ever since I left for college. Right now, my family lives in the mountains east of L.A. in a little town “up the hill.” Here I have learned how much I truly love real-life seasons. All those years growing up in San Diego we didn’t really have seasons. It was kind of warm, warmer, or hot there, with an occasional strong windy day. But feeling the seasons now as they blend into one another, marking time with visible layers of change, feels so right to me.

Rachel:  Speaking of San Diego, one thing that attracted me to your blog is your lovely photographs.  This one reminds me of San Diego:

What stunning beauty!  So, tell me about your blog.  Why do you blog, and can you share a favorite post?

Jeanine:  I started blogging at Rosie Girl Dreams right before my third baby was born earlier this year.

I had already been imagining a space where I could write for a few years by this time. But first I had to work through all the little issues I had: sharing so much personal information, broadcasting to the “world,” creating an online identity, figuring out html (a work in progress), and opening myself up to possibilities in this new context.

As I figured this all out, my mind had already begun to blog. Tidbits of my day would shape themselves into little posts. (Yes, I was becoming an avid blog reader at this time too.) And after a while, mind-blogging and already taking photos, I decided to give it a try.

So, here I am. Newly blogging. And loving it. There seems to be something about finding oneself again after your first child begins to enter the world more on their own. It’s been a big part of this experience for me.

One favorite blog post is “10 Reasons to Draw with Your Children”. I go back to this post over and over again, reminding myself to lay down on the carpet and get drawing with my kids. Sometimes it’s so easy to feel too busy to join our kids in the fun. But it always feels like the real learning and living take place when you can drop it all.

Rachel:  Drawing…  this is something we need a little help to make happen.  Last year, early in the homeschool year, the kids and I would draw together once a week.  And, yes, we all enjoyed it.  I let that slide, but I have put it back into our weekly rhythm plan with the new school year.  I hope it’s a tradition we’re able to hold onto this time. 

So, I’ve gathered from your blog that you walk the “alternative” path lots of the time, be it elimination communication, cloth diapers, gentle discipline, breastfeeding, cooking from scratch, eating a vegetarian diet, home birth….

Jeanine:  I know I’ve been labeled “crunchy.” And, I do fit the description. But really, I’m not a label person. Never have been. I feel comfortable in a world without boxes. A world where people don’t judge as much as they offer a hand. And I feel very comfortable sharing my approach, so that’s the goal of Rosie Girl Dreams. To share a frugal, simple and green approach to family living.

Rachel:  Well, I love it!  We need each other to learn and to grow as people.  I know that my own journey into eco-consciousness and “green” living was heavily influenced (and continues to be) by bloggers and writers.  Can you share with us your motivation for being green and how you’re living it out?

Jeanine:  My children motivate me to live a greener life. But just as important–humankind, animal life, the green layer (plants), and Mother Earth all inspire me to approach life with more respect, humbleness and love.

One change I’ve made in this last year is to be more aware of re-using and re-working our old things. Sometimes this is in the kitchen.  Other times it’s with the things we wear. And occasionally it’s all about fun.

Rachel:  Thanks so much for sharing, Jeanine!  I really enjoyed it.

Jeanine:  Rachel, thanks so much for inviting me to share a little here. I already feel so incredibly lucky to have met so many wonderful people online. And your blog is truly a peaceful, inspiring and thoughtful place to visit. I would love to welcome anyone over to Rosie Girl Dreams if they have a moment in their day. Cheers!

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Mommy Bogger Love: The Artful Parent

Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Rachel:  Welcome, Jean, of The Artful Parent.  It was so fun to meet you at Mayfair after following your blog for some time.  Tell us about yourself and your family!

Jean:  Art is a big part of our life and has been since I started a toddler art group when my oldest daughter, Maia, turned one. We try to make art a regular part of our day through planned and spontaneous art projects, ready access to a variety of art materials, and an artful approach to life in general. Maia’s almost five now and I also have a 9 month old.

Rachel:  My children are older (sniff, sniff), which has made giving them “ready access to a variety of art materials” pretty doable.  In fact, last summer your blog inspired me to create an art center for them, which I shared here as a series of posts “Creating an Art Studio for a Young Child.”  If you could see that table today… it is absolutely covered with paper!  We haven’t worked much on keeping it tidy.  Anyhoo, what I want to do is thank you for encouraging all of us to be better moms.  What drives you to blog?

Jean:  I blog for so many reasons – reasons which have changed since I started 2 ½ years ago, and reasons which change depending on how I feel when I’m asked. Ultimately, though, I think it comes down to community. I love the community of people who comment, read, and give feedback on The Artful Parent. I write knowing that what I share is used and appreciated. And, likewise, I get so many ideas from them and other bloggers!

Also, as a stay-at-home mom, I feel like I’m in a vacuum sometimes. What do we do all day? At the end of the day what is there to show for it? And who cares? Blogging both helps me connect with others, but it also gives me a voice and a place to say, This is what we did. Maybe it was only a few minutes of our day, but we did this. And people might comment which effectively says, “we see you,” “we hear you,” and “thanks for sharing.” It keeps me going.

Rachel:  Thanks, Jean.  Here’s a question – do you consider yourself an “alternative” parent? 

Jean:  I think “alternative” is so subjective. Sometimes I feel pretty alternative – I make (or have made) my own lotion, deodorant, green cleaners, laundry detergent, diapers, clothes, bread, kefir, granola, etc. I garden and compost. I’m an attachment parenting, co-sleeping, baby-wearing mama who let my daughter wean herself when she was ready.

In some places I would probably be super alternative! But here in Asheville, that is small potatoes. These are all decisions that each family has to make for themselves. And it’s easy to fall into the guilt trap. I used cloth diapers with my first daughter and fully intended to with my second. I even went crazy making my own! But after a couple of months, I was really stressing out trying to keep up with the laundry and decided to scale back to paper diapers for now. I feel a lot of guilt about that, but that’s where we are right now.

Rachel:  Living sustainably is definitely a journey, and no two are alike.  You know I’ve been selling organic, non-toxic mattresses for 3 years now and only just purchased healthy twin mattresses for my kids (and passed on the conventional ones via Craigslist which I figure prevents 2 more toxic mattresses from being manufactured).  We do what we can do.  What motivates you to “go green”?

Jean:  Having a family has been my biggest motivator to be “green.” I want a healthy planet of course, but what really drives me is keeping my children healthy and minimizing their exposure to pesticides and toxic chemicals. And trying to wrap my head around what the world could be like when they are having kids of their own.

As for something that has helped me go green, I’d say the web, although the volume of information can be overwhelming! I especially love the Environmental Working Group’s website, and all the great information they have to share to help keep us safe from toxins in our environment. I keep a copy of their Clean Fifteen/Dirty Dozen list of produce on my fridge and refer to their Skin Deep website for information about the best choices in skin products such as sunscreen.

Rachel:  Yep, all great resources that I have used myself!  Thanks again for stopping by to talk, Jean.  We all look forward to more creative fun from The Artful Parent in the years to come!

**If you are a Mommy Blogger who would like to be featured at Euphoria Blog, please email me at rachel {*~at} euphoria baby {dot} com.  I look forward to getting to know you!***

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Mommy Blogger Love: Ramblings of a Lovesick Mommy

Thursday, May 13th, 2010

Rachel  : Welcome, Melody, of Ramblings of a Lovesick Mommy.  You were the lucky winner of our last giveaway and inspired this new series with Mommy Bloggers.  Tell us About Yourself! 

Melody: 1 son, Davis who turns 2 saturday! 1 more little boy on the way due sometime in July.  I was born and raised in Columbia.  My little man keeps me super busy and I love every minute of it.  Being a stay at home mom is by far the best and most rewarding job I have ever had (even though the monetary pay is limited to finding spare change while doing laundry…).  I can’t seem to take enough pictures of him, but when I’m not doing that, I love creating things out of recycled materials, knitting, sipping on tea while chatting with a friend, reading, and kayaking with my husband.

Rachel  : I recently visited your blog and loved the post “why i want to have a homebirth.”  Tell us a little about why you blog.

Melody:    I love blogging, because it reminds me that I am indeed still an adult with adult thoughts.  It’s a way for me to process my thoughts while they are still fresh on my mind.  I used to journal, but have found that I organize my thoughts much better if I think other people will read them.  (Also, I always found a way to misplace my journals.  With blogging, I always know where the computer is).  Also, i don’t ever want to forget these fleeting moments of parenting. 

Rachel:  What is one of your favorite memories perserved via a blog post?

Meloday:  That would be “warning for the strong of stomach only.”   I like this one because I feel like it represents the best/hardest moments of being married with children.

Rachel:  What a post and what a testimony to what marriage can be!  Thanks for sharing.  OK, here’s another question:  tell us about some aspect of your lifestyle that might be considered “alternative.”

Melody:  Extended breastfeeding: we breastfed for about 21 or 22 months?  Something like that.  We quit because I was 4 months pregnant and I was getting pretty sore!  I certainly received “advice” from shocked well wishers who thought I should have weaned a while ago.  However can I just say that people think you are super-mom when your toddler is having a tantrum, and you leave the room with him for about 2 minutes, nurse him, and step back in the public with a content angel?  It was definitely my “secret weapon” ;)

Rachel:  I know you have a passion for natural products and an eco-friendly lifestyle.  What motivates you?

Melody:   Over the past few years we have cloth diapered, composted and recycled.  I believe that being wise stewards of the earth is a way we can glorify our Creator, God.  I want to take care of what I have been entrusted with, as a way to teach my children how to be grateful for nature and not be wasteful.  I want my children to learn to be content with simple things.  This will help them in the future to think creatively and appreciate the little things in life.

Rachel:  Anything you want to say to the readers at Euphoria?

Melody:  I love comments on my blog!  It helps me know that there are other people out there who might be able to relate to me :) .

Rachel:  Thanks, Melody!  I really appreciate your time and hope that some of my readers will enjoy connecting with you.  Blessings on your upcomming birth!

***If you are a Mommy Blogger who would like to be featured at Euphoria Blog, please email me at rachel {*~at} euphoria baby {dot} com.  I look forward to getting to know you!***

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