Posts Tagged ‘in real life’

First Harvest

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

Eating well and eating sustainably rarely gets better than backyard gardening.  This year we put in our first garden ever.  It was hard going.  But largely thanks to help from my mom, it did go in.  Here’s a montage from about 2 weeks ago:

May Garden

This week we took our first harvest, just in time for snacks. Those carrots are baby carrots that were “thinned” to allow others more room to grow. Yum!

First Harvest

Better Boy yielded three large, ripe beauties. Technically, Celebrity sported our first ripe full-sized tomatoe… but my 3-year-old picked and sqooshed it under his shoe before I could say “NO!” That’s real life gardening with children!

How does your garden grow?

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Friend to Friend

Monday, March 29th, 2010

I made a wonderful new friend this weekend. She’s fun, clever, real and we have lots in common. But, as she put it, she’s not friends with many “green” women like me. I was so thankful that she could hear about my natural lifestyle with acceptance, rather than annoyance. And, I have to admit, I hope to share more about my passion for healthy living in the future.

As life would have it, I came across a moving video produced by Healthy Child, Healthy World today. They are a non-profit that advocates for and educates the public about the health of our children in our modern world. It’s called “A Wake-Up Story” and it’s a simple way to introduce a friend like mine to the reasons why I care. I hope you’ll watch this SHORT video:

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The Terrible Threes

Saturday, February 20th, 2010

Is your 2-year-old sweet, manageable, obedient?  Don’t pat yourself on the back just yet.  Wait until you get through age 3 before congratulating yourself.  It’s not the terrible twos – no, it’s the terrible threes, I tell ya!

We’ve hit rocky times in our house these last few months, as our little Liam has begun sporting a BIG boy attitude.  He knows what he wants (and you have it).  He knows how he wants to play (and it’s not sister’s way).  He does NOT know that screaming, carrying on and throwing a fit aren’t the way to solve the problems of his 3-year-old world (and the learning of that is my job).  Sigh.  

Both my little angels waited until after they turned 3 to experiment with full-fledged tantrums.  Even the most zen mama can’t help but start overheating when the tears start flying.  When reason (ha!), tenderness, and calm repetition won’t tide the storm, I’ve been known to send him to his room.  Although we’ve yet to have a public meltdown, how’s 20 minutes of screaming in the car?!?  My ears will never be the same ;) .

Here’s a picture of my little rascal.  He doesn’t look terrible, does he?  Oh, but he is.  He is.  Terribly hard to handle just now.  Terribly precious too.  Lately I’ve taken to reminding myself that Aria was terrible a ways back.  And now, she’s so sweet it’s incredible.  Yesterday, while joyfully washing our windows, she kindly included her brother by letting him squirt the window cleaner.  When she finished she asked me, “Mama, when can I learn to clean the toilets too?”  Heaven.

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On My Bookshelf

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

I believe in reading a book, appreciating it, moving on.  I rarely indulge in more than one book at a time, and yet as of this moment I find myself actively reading 4 good books.  How did this happen?  After finishing Aria’s curtains, I just didn’t feel like starting a new sewing project…

Of all them, I am most enjoying an oddly titled volume “Mitten Strings for God: Reflections for Mothers in a Hurry.”  The book is reflective, and it is for mothers, but it’s certainly not about God.  I can’t imagine why her publisher agreed to that title!  And, if you’re “in a hurry’ you’re not likely to enjoy this “lovely meditation on family life and the importance of slowing down long enough to savor it.”  But, lovely it is.  I allow myself just 1 or 2 short chapters at a time.  It’s real soul-food for the mindful mama.  Some of my favorite chapters so far are “Morning”, “Dailiness”, “One-on-One Time”, and “Listening.”  This weekend Aria and I had a “date” at the local duck pond.  She roller-skating and I walking, relishing the fresh air, pretty sights and special time together.  Thank-you, Katrina Kenison, for writing such a wise book and sharing your homelife with us all.

I am also reading “Go Green, Save Green:  A Simple Guide to Saving Time, Money, and God’s Green Earth” by Nancy Sleeth.  This is a pick from a local mother’s book club and I’ve only just finished the first chapter.  Reading ahead does no good with a book club, of course.  But that’s no problem since this a book that you DO more than read.  The first chapter  on “Home” already helped me create a list of new habits and home-improvement projects that will allow us to save money and reduce our environmental impact.  While Nancy does write as a Christian, her book would be as useful to someone of another faith.  If you’re new to “going green” the book is likely to be overwhelming.  Nancy and her husband have a monthly electric bill ranging from $15-$18, so that gives you a sense for how bright GREEN they are.  I did notice there was no mention of “family cloth” in lieu of toilet paper.  I wonder if that change is in the Sleeth’s future?!?  (No, our family does not use “family cloth”, but I do hope to switch us to cloth tissues soon).   

And then, last night, I finished the first book in the Anne of Green Gables series.  I think there are like 9 books?  I know, I know!  Yes, I read this when I was little.  Yes, it is such an old classic.  Yes, I am a bit crazy.  But, really, it is goooooood!  Here’s what I emailed to my friend Laura (whom I’ve convinced to read along with me): “I just had to tell you what a good time I had last night starting the book.  I read about 100 pages in a few hours (the pages are small and the reading is easy).  The amazing thing is that I had cried and laughed several times only 3-4 chapters in!  Ohmigoodness, the book is so good!  The writing is so alive, the characters are so real, I can’t believe I’ve had it sitting on my shelf all this time.  I think I must have been like 8 when I read the series originally, and I just couldn’t have possibly appreciated it this much! “  There’s another “Anne” book awaiting me on my bookshelf.  But, I’m trying to resist…

And among things entirely irresistable is “Cupcakes:  Luscious Bakeshop Favorites from Your Home Kitchen” by Shelly Kaldunski.  I have decided, you see, that my cupcake-making skills have much to be desired.  My birthday cakes inspire “oohs” and “ahhs”, but last time I made cupcakes, I actually threw some away.  I checked out 4 cupcake books from my library and this was the easy winner:  both usual and exotic recipes, oodles of pictures, and good directions for basic baking and decorating skills.  I am making strawberry cupcakes this very night for our Valentines playgroup party tomorrow.  Can’t wait to try out some frosting techniques from this book!  And, little Liam absolutely can not stop turning the pages, declaring a cupcake for everyone.

And now these 2 books have just arrived from the library – long on request.  I’ve been tantalized by the cover of “A Homemade Life” even though I have my doubts that I’ll find a personal account woven with recipes to be very satisfying (I do NOT love to cook.  I do love to bake!).  And the other “Coop: A Year of Poultry, Pigs & Parenting” has quite an enticing title… whatever does that look like?  Yet the cover does not make me ache to crack it open.  I just don’t aspire to live that rustically.  But, I bet it’ll be quite good after all. 

Do you feel the squeeze?  Please wish me sanity in all this reading.  I just starting cutting into my next sewing project last night, so now it’s quite the toss up as to what will get done!

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My Easy, Cheap, Eco-Friendly Skin Care Regimen

Friday, January 29th, 2010

A year and a half ago, I ditched traditional skin care products (cleanser, toner, moisturizer, scrub, mask) for the oil cleansing method.  All this time later, I’m still loving the simplicity of this approach.  I massage the oil mixture into my face during my daily shower, and gently remove it with a hot wash cloth.  Done!  And sometimes I skip a day when I’m not wearing makeup. 

If you don’t know what in the world I’m talking about, read my post Cleaning your face with… OIL for simple directions. 

Besides simplifying my life, the oil cleansing method is definitely saving me money.  That first bottle of sunflower oil lasted for a year.  I’m still using the original bottle of castor oil.  As such, this facial skin care regime costs me about $15 a year… a YEAR!  As a bonus, I know exactly what I’m putting on my skin (no chemicals here!) and I’m eliminating the waste typically generated by multiple little plastic bottles of a multi-part skin care solution. 

So, how’s it working?  My skin has always been blemish-prone.  I’ve noticed no worsening breakouts and a slight improvement during certain times of the month over and above my old Kiss My Face products.  During the moist, humid summer, my face requires no moisturizer at all with the oil cleansing method.  Since I’m not stripping my skin with a chemical or soap-based cleanser, my natural oil production is balanced (hurray!!!) and sufficient.  This is a HUGE improvement, since I’ve always had combination skin that’s oily and flaky.  During the winter, I apply a tiny bit of 100% sunflower oil or Weleda’s Lavender Oil (for a treat!) to my skin post-cleansing when needed.  I still like to use a scrub about once a week just because it feels good.  After I used up my store-bought scrub, I switched to baking soda – wonderful, versatile baking soda.  I keep both the baking soda and the oil cleansing solution (25% castor oil/75% sunflower oil) in little glass spice jars in the shower.  So simple.  So pure.  So cheap!

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In the Spirit of the New Year

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Just now I took a look at my goals for 2009, written last January.  It was fun to be reminded of how much we accomplished, as a family, last year. There was just one item on the list, that we did not bring to fruition:  Get a flock of egg-laying chickens.  Unfortunately, this project was delayed time and time again because of financial constraints.  As much as it seems economical to have chickens, getting started by building a predator-safe chicken house (we live without fences alongside a forest) is not so cheap.  Our friends did get their own flock spring of last year, so we’ve been enjoying their success and sharing their sorrow at some losses.  Their chickens are so friendly – Liam loves them!  Well, I’ll be optimistic and put that goal on the list again this year:

1.  Get a flock of egg-laying chickens

2.  Plant our first vegetable garden

3.  Learn how to keep and make sourdough

4.  Keep sewing!  I have a whole list of projects, from practical things like coasters to fun things like Christmas stockings and a tree skirt.  I can’t wait to get started!

5.  Take up embroidery and/or find a knitting project that suits me.  I like to keep my hands busy when watching TV with my husband.  I learned to knit this fall and made two scarves for Christmas presents.  I can’t think of anything I’d like to knit next, so I’m starting an embroidery project from Sew Liberated.

6.  Grow and develop as a homeschooler so that I can continue to meet the needs of my children.  As Liam turns 3 this year, I’ll want to be thinking of him more as I shape our days.  Aria’s K1 year has been wonderful, so far!

7.  Follow God’s call to deepen my own spiritual walk with a women’s Bible study or family small group that fits our schedule.

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I Am Thankful

Saturday, November 21st, 2009

Tommorow I’ll make “Thankful” poems (as seen at Let’s Explore) with my kids.  Today, it’s my turn:

I’m thankful for leaves and sun and sky.

sky

I’m really thankful for the hope I have in Christ.

fall

I’m thankful for the opportunity to be creative.

princess wands

I’m thankful for silliness.

silliness

I’m thankful for chocolate, dear friends and dance.

dance

But most of all, I’m thankful for family.

family

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The Halloween Hunt

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

searchingOur Harvest Party was wonderful – Halloween on our own terms and fun for all!  The highlight for the kids was the Halloween Hunt, I’m sure.  Nine costumed littles from 2 to 5 criss-crossed throughout our property as they followed picture clues.  It started like this:

To Celebrate this Night

of Costumes & Pleasure

Follow these Pictures

to find a Treasure!

Nine laminated photos of locations like the Pear Tree Swing, Well House and Brick Pile were hidden in a progressive trail.  They worked together, traveling in one exuberant group, as they journeyed from spot to spot.  I thought I’d have to help them find some pictures, but they discovered them all by themselves.  I guess nine kids clustered in one locale can’t help but stumble on the next hidden picture eventually!

reachingAbout half-way through, our youngests were lagging behind from all the running.  It was amazing, truly unbelievable, to actually see our two-year-olds tired out!  When does that happen?  As the kids headed to the last location – the climbing tree – I encouraged my little one to run along for the treasure.  Little paper treasure bags were nestled in the tree limbs.  Up they went or down they fell, as it were (one little guy figured out he could shake the tree!).  So fun!

climbingInside the bags: an organic lollipop, fruit leather, 2 mini playdoughs, a fruit drink box and a spider ring.  Of course, they dived right into the candy.  My favorite part was when I told Aria she could go ahead and open her second piece of candy and she shouted “We can eat all of the candy, tonight!” to the other children in absolute joy.  Haha, how’s that for conquering the Halloween candy beast!?!  How nice as parents to get to say “yes”!

pumpkin carvingOur Harvest Party concluded with pumpkin carving, followed by apple cider and baked treats around the campfire.  What a perfect night!  As Aria announced before bed, “I had a great Halloween, Mama!”

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Enter to Win “The Creative Family” by Amanda Soule!

Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009

creative familyFinally, a book giveaway!  Amanda Soule’s “The Creative Family: How to Encourage Imagination and Nurture Family Connections” has met with heartfelt praise since it was published last year. It’s designed to help families embrace new ways to relax, play, and grow together by doing simple things like enjoying nature, using imagination and playing with basic art supplies and household objects.

A friend recommended this book last year.  I wrote, “I’m so excited to read this book because, to be honest, creativity is not my forte. As an aspiring home-schooler (in the unschooling manner) and a part-time stay-at-home mom, I would love to create a home-culture like the one Amanda describes.” 

It’s hard to explain how much has changed in the year and a half since I read “The Creative Family.”  Amanda introduced me to a family culture which led to our “discovery” of Waldorf.  Now we are Waldorf-inspired homeschoolers and our entire family atmosphere has changed.  It all began with a toy revolution.  What a fantastic and joyful change!  Then I began to integrate seasonal songs, poems, books and fingerplays into my days with the children.  Soon we were playing outside more.  Next our interest in art exploded and I worked to create an art studio at home for their free exploration.  And, last of all, I broke out of my “I’m not creative” box and felt empowered to sew, sew, sew – just in time for Handmade Home, Amanda’s latest book!

My hope is that this copy of “The Creative Family” will usher your family down a similar, yet unique path of joyful family becoming.

Enter to Win.   We’re giving away one copy of Amanda Soule’s “The Creative Family.”  Enter now through November 30th (11:59 EST) by adding your comment to this blog post. We’ll choose one random winner!  Shipping included. Winner will be notified by email. Open to U.S. residents only.

For ONE extra entry, subscribe to this blog.  You can subscribe via email in the lefthand column.  Leave a separate comment for your “subscriber” extra entry.  Subscribers qualify for one extra entry on each giveaway!

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Contest Closed!  Congratulations, Rebecca, our winner.

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Frustration

Saturday, October 17th, 2009

Last Saturday I was heading home from the library when I received a phone call from a good friend.  She needs to buy a couple twin mattresses and wanted to receive my opinion on the options.  I told her she could buy a conventional mattress and then top it off with a vinyl-free waterproof mattress pad like these from Naturepedic or a wool puddle pad from EcoBaby.    She was shocked at my answer so I added, “It’s my understanding that manufacturers only use polyurethane foam in baby mattresses…”  Um, no.  She had heard otherwise.  And then I realized that since no conventional mattress would be made with wool (which is naturally fire retardant), they would all be doused with chemical fire-retardants.  Hmmm…

Before long I was pulling up the sheets on my daughter’s twin mattress, which we purchased 3 years ago from a local mattress store.  The tag confessed that the mattress was 23% polyurethane foam.  Nooooooo!  Then I was tearing away at my son’s twin mattress, which is a hand-me-down from my childhood.  It’s topped off with a nice, fluffy layer of polyurethane foam.  OK, but surely not the queen-sized mattress my husband and I bought just 2 years ago when our hand-me-down got too lumpy?  In my denial I hoped that they make adult mattresses of better materials.  Sadly, the tag revealed more of the same.  Why not top off an innerspring mattress with some polyurethane padding?  All the better to release it’s toxins into the air, right? 

Frustration.  Do you know what twin and queen-sized organic mattresses cost?  I know, because we sell them.  Unfortunately, we didn’t start selling them until after all of these purchases.  But, really, I had it in my head that adult mattresses were foam-free. Don’t know where that thought came from.  It’s besides the point, anyways, since chemical fire retardants are known endocrine disruptors. I’m sure all our mattresses are permeated with the stuff.  Can’t feel good about that. 

Toxic Bed

Two Little Monkeys playing on our Bed.

My husband just shakes his head at the thought of our being able to replace all three mattresses on our current budget.  I was thinking, “Well surely we should start somewhere.  Let’s replace my 2-year-old’s mattress first and then Aria’s and then ours, someday… in the distant future.”  This week I’ve been thinking about the whole situation.  I hate finding out that things we’ve been living with and using for years are toxic.  How annoying.  It feels so irresponsible.  Soooo frustrating. 

Well, it gets worse.  We’re having a special visit from some in-laws next week.  It inspired me to borrow my mom’s carpet cleaner to clean our couches.  I use straight vinegar as the cleaning agent, instead of the commercial mix which includes who-knows-what chemicals.  So, there I am removing cushions last night and what do I find?  Oh, just that our couches are filled with straight polyurethane foam.  That’s right, and I’ve heard reports about couches being some of the biggest sources of chemical fire retardants in the home.  Ahhhhh!!!!! 

This post is not about answers.  It’s not about information.  It’s just about frustration.  I know how it feels to discover that you’ve been feeding your child with BPA-ridden bottles, sippy cups and storage containers.  I know how it feels to discover that your cleaning products may do more bad than good.  I know how it feels to realize you need to replace your child’s crib mattress, changing table pad and mattress pad protector (and it’s your last baby and he’s already 1 year old).  And, now, now, I know how it feels to wish you could replace 2 twin mattresses, 1 queen mattress, 2 couches and 2 armchairs.  Right.  Like that’s going to happen.

P.S.  And then today, on Mothering.com’s forum, I also realized that we still have two Teflon-coated cookware items in use: our waffle maker and our griddle.  Grrr… And the hits just keep coming.

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