Posts Tagged ‘preparing for baby’

What you *Really* Need for Baby

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Advice for new moms about what they really need to welcome baby varies as much as do moms themselves.  Is it possible to make a ideal “baby registry” list?  Probably not.  Your needs will be unique to you and unique to your baby.  And yet, new moms have to start somewhere!

I came across a post at Rookie Moms that brings together suggestions from lots of different moms.   It’s smart to open your ears to what items have been important and what have been completely unnecessary.  Take it in and then go with your instinct.  After all you may as well learn to trust your instincts now.  You’ll be doing that a lot as a new mom!

What a new mom *actually* needs

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Q & A: Baby Mattress Pads

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

EcoBaby Wool Crib Pad

Q:  I’m looking to purchase mattress pads for my 9 month old son (so far have been tempting fate just using a sheet)… I really want a PVC free option, obviously, but I’m wondering the difference between the wool/cotton pad package and the other Naturepedic non-toxic waterproof mattress pad?

A:  The Ecobaby wool puddle pad/cotton puddle pad combo is the best way to achieve a completely natural waterproof mattress pad system.  Some people do skip the cotton pad.  In that case baby will get a bit wet when she has an accident, and if it’s a REALLY big accident, it could go through the wool pad, but that’s pretty unlikely. 

EcoBaby Cotton Crib Pad

Don’t use just a cotton pad, as that won’t effectively protect the mattress. The cotton pad absorbs.  The wool pad stops the moisture.  Using both provides mattress protection (wool) and comfort for baby (cotton).

The Naturepedic mattress pad is what I use for my own children.  It does have a very thin layer of a special type of breathable plastic.  Naturepedic calls this plastic layer their “ Ultra-Thin Waterproof Membrane.”   It has been tested for off-gassing and easily passes GREENGUARD’s certification standards for eliminating chemical emissions.  This plastic film is enclosed in organic cotton so that it does not come in contact with baby.  The Naturepedic mattress pad is very thin, but definitely works to protect the mattress. 

Naturepedic Waterproof Crib Pad

I trust the company and know that the product is PVC/vinyl and phthalate free.  That’s why I use it with my children. 

To sum it up, the EcoBaby wool puddle pad/cotton puddle pad combo is an ideal mattress pad solution since it effectively protects the mattress with completely natural, organic materials.  However, it is quite costly.  For those families that require a more affordable compromise, the Naturepedic mattress pad offers significant savings and safety.  I hope that helps!

To shop for EcoBaby and Naturepedic mattress pads, go to the Sleep section of our store and navigate to the size you need!  Besides crib sized, we offer many special sizes like bassinet, Moses basket, cradle, portacrib, Davinci & Stokke.

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From the Archives: My First Baby Registry

Sunday, January 17th, 2010

My First Baby Registry – the Revised Version

(originally posted January 2008)

I’m so excited for my best friend who is pregnant with her first baby!  Talking with her has me thinking about how overwhelming it was to create that first baby registry.  There were so many choices and so many products.  My second baby is now almost one (shock, gasp, sniffle) so I feel that I’ve earned the right to give a little advice on making a baby registry.  Here’s my list of what I wish I hadn’t registered for, what would have been a better choice, and why:

  1. Conventional crib mattress Organic, Non-toxic crib mattress – the concoction of chemicals emitted from vinyl crib mattresses is ridiculously unhealthy for developing little bodies.  And baby spends so much time sleeping on that mattress!  Ditto on the organic mattress protector, since conventional ones are made with vinyl.
  2. Baby sling & Bjorn front carrier Beco Baby Carrier – would have been the only carrier I would have needed from birth to age 3+.  Also would have been more comfortable.  I never did like the sling because of how it swings away from the body.
  3. Disposable diapers BumGenius Cloth Diapers – there’s no area in which we wasted more money or dealt with more unnecessary trouble than in this one.  All that money in the trash and all those messy disposable diaper explosions could have been avoided.
  4. Avent baby bottles/pacifiers Safe BPA-Free Bottles/Pacifiers – at the time I was completely unaware of these concerns.  Now I would never think twice about spending extra money on safer feeding and soothing choices.
  5. BoppyAny other Nursing Pillow – I have found the Boppy to be the least helpful pillow for breastfeeding.  The rounded surface is all wrong!  Look for a nursing pillow that is flat on top so you’re not constantly repositioning baby.  
  6. Gerber Baby Body Care Natural, higher-end Baby Products – one bottle of baby wash, shampoo, lotion, etc. will probably last you the entire first year or longer.  If I had known, I would have splurged on some nicer products.
  7. Conventional Receiving Blankets Large Swaddling Blankets - typical receiving blankets are only large enough to wrap a newborn.  I swaddle my babies throughout their first year as a sleep cue.  Um, I needed some bigger blankets!
  8. Extra Bottles for Freezing MilkGlass storage or milk freezing trays – I’d feel best about freezing extra breastmilk in glass containers for health reasons, but another good option would have been Fresh Milk trays.  It’s nice to freeze in super-small portions so that you don’t have to defrost more milk than you need.
  9. Infant gowns Footed Sleepers – many parents love gowns for easy changing access.  We hated them because we felt they were too drafty for our winter babies.  When it comes to baby clothes it’s wise to save receipts and hold off on washing everything until you see what you prefer to use. 
  10. Zooper highchair Wooden Highchair - at the time I couldn’t imagine spending as much on a high chair as popular wooden models demanded.  Now there are many affordable versions.  Wooden highchairs are easier to clean, fit better with modern decor, and are a safer food surface too.  You’ll be looking at that highchair a LOT!

It’s definitely true that my revised baby registry would have been more spendy than my original one.  At the time, my husband and I were shocked by the costs of gearing up for baby.  If you’re in a similar situation I suggest you look into getting your first-choice items secondhand through consignment stores or eBay.  You will probably find products in wonderful condition that end up costing you just as much or even less than those second-rate items you might have compromised for brand new. 

Happy shopping!

*It’s no accident that many of the things on the revised registry are now offerred in our baby store.  It was precisely this type of thinking that led our family business to expand from our maternity store to a natural baby boutique. 

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Is Naturepedic’s “FlameBreaker” Fire Retardant Safe?

Monday, November 9th, 2009

There are countless manufacturers of organic baby mattresses, but Naturepedic stands out from the rest. They have a unique approach – make a product that’s safe and affordable, without using wool or latex which carry potential allergy concerns. Fans love the price. The Classic, “No Compromise” crib mattress is just $259! But, others cite concerns with the safety of Naturepedic’s wool substitutions.

You see, traditional organic baby mattresses rely upon wool for its fire retardant properties. A mattress that has enough wool does not require chemical fire retardants to meet fire safety standards. And avoiding those chemicals is an absolute priority for informed shoppers. Instead of using expensive and potentially allergenic wool, Naturepedic has created “FlameBreaker”, a proprietary fire blocking system utilizing baking soda and silica. They claim that it’s safe and non-toxic. But, is it? Here’s how Naturepedic describes it:

Our exclusive fire protection system is based on the unique fire retardant properties of baking soda and hydrated silica bonded to cellulose fiber. Baking soda is a non-toxic substance with excellent fire retardant properties and can be found as a naturally occurring compound. Silica is a natural mineral that comprises about 60% of the earth’s crust. Clay, rocks, sand, etc. are all made primarily of silica. It is a major constituent of human tissue, bones, teeth, etc., and is even available at health food stores as a food supplement. It is also a primary ingredient in natural toothpaste. The cellulose fiber used is derived primarily from eucalyptus and poplar trees and has a low carbon footprint. These materials provide the best way to meet fire regulations without the use of dangerous chemicals or allergenic wool.

Everyone agrees that baking soda is safe. It’s the silica that garners concern. Silica can be a dry, dusty powder that’s super-fine and dangerous to inhale. This is a crystaline form of silica that poses a cancer hazard to some factory workers who inhale it every day. Hydrated silica is a completely different chemical state involving a variable amount of water in the formula, according to Wikipedia. Hydrated silica is NOT dry and dusty and cannot be inhaled. It’s commonly used in natural toothepaste – in fact, it’s used in MY natural toothepaste! This kind is not dangerous. Naturepedic says they bind it to the fibers of the cellulose, which sounds like a stable solution to me.

I personally recommend and even own Naturepedic products, which reflects my comfort level with the company. It encourages me that their mattresses have been tested for chemical emissions and certified by GREENGUARD® to meet their strict standards for children. I also like that Naturepedic mattresses carry a 10 year warranty and that Healthy Child, Healthy World, an organization I fully trust, endorses Naturepedic. When we can afford to do so, I’ll be replacing my children’s twin mattresses with Naturepedic’s waterproof twin mattress. It’s the best priced mattress on the market, and I’m convinced that it’s a safe, responsible purchase.

Note: If your family does not have a history of wool allergy, I feel quite comfortable recommending a wool mattress to you. Wool is a wonderful, natural fiber that makes an excellent mattress. Unfortunately, it’s also expensive, which is one reason why some parents choose Naturepedic’s more affordable product.

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Must-Reads for Preparing for Baby

Thursday, October 8th, 2009

You want the best for your baby – of course!  During pregnancy don’t just read about childbirth and breastfeeding… read about how best to care and prepare for baby.  It’s never too early or too late to nurture your family.  Here’s a book list to get you started:

Health & Nutrition

Healthy Child Healthy World: Creating a Cleaner, Greener, Safer Homeby Christopher Gavigan.  If you desire to create a safe, non-toxic home for your child, this is THE most comprehensive book available.  You’ll refer back to it again and again.  This book makes you aware of all the issues so that you can create a healthy nursery the first time around.

Raising Baby Green: The Earth-Friendly Guide to Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Baby Care by Alan GreenThis book covers the same topics as Healthy Child, Healthy World, but in a more concise manner appropriate for those new to green, natural living.  In addition to discussing safe, earth-friendly choices for the nursery and home, Dr. Green addresses pregnancy and childbirth.

The Vaccine Book: Making the Right Decision for Your Child by Robert Sears.  As unbiased and fair a book on this important subject as can be found.  Comprehensive, accessible information and support for the choice to vaccinate fully, selectively or not at all.  Any of the above is not without real risk.  You owe it to your child to become informed.

Feeding Baby Green: The Earth Friendly Program for Healthy, Safe Nutrition During Pregnancy, Childhood, and Beyond by Alan Greene.  Dr. Green brings the most current research to bear on the subject of what to eat during pregnancy and what to serve to baby.  Aiming to foster “nutritional intelligence”  that will positively impact baby’s health and development for the rest of his or her lives.   Much more than a cookbook!

Parenting

The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Nightby Elizabeth Pantley.  If you place a high value on getting a full night’s sleep, but aren’t willing to let your baby “cry it out”, this is an excellent resource.  Elizabeth shares a wealth of ideas to encourage sleep and take small, measurable steps in the right direction.  Very easy to apply!  It shaped our family’s sleep.

The Happiest Baby on the Block – The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Baby Sleep Longer (DVD)  by Harvey Karp.  This DVD is so, so worth your time.  It is available as a book, but the DVD is so much more helpful (and faster).  Watch it with your partner to learn how to calm any fussy baby.  We watched this while I was in labor and it was incredibly helpful.

The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Two by William Sears.  This book is a classic.  Whatever your take on “attachment parenting” reading this book will help you form a picture of the parenting style that’s right for you.  Dr. Sears encourages parents to follow their instincts, parenting from the heart.

Sweet Anticipation

The Baby Name Wizard: A Magical Method for Finding the Perfect Name for Your Baby by Laura Wattenberg.  Not your typical dictionary of baby names, meanings and ancestry.  This unique book organizes names by groups like “Antique Charm”,  “Brisk & Breezy” and “Guys & Dolls.”  It shares info on the popularity of the name over the years, common associations and recommended names for siblings (which is a great way to find a similar name if your partner hates your choice).  Very fun!

Handmade Home: Simple Ways to Repurpose Old Materials into New Family Treasures by Amanda Blake Soule.  Beautiful, eco-friendly and well-written – this is the perfect book to indulge your nesting instinct.  Includes projects for sewing and other crafts as well.  I’m loving it.

Amy Butler’s Little Stitches by Amy Butler.  A very popular, well-done handbook for sewing for baby.  Can’t find the right bedding for your crib – make your own.  Appropriate for beginners and intermediates.  Of course, you can also find books for knitting and crocheting for baby.  There are sooo many choices…  Best to choose these at the book store!

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Always Start with an Organic Mattress

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009

Preparing for baby is quite a task, and doubly-so when you’re having twins. I just worked with a mom whose twins are due this fall. She’s educated and concerned about avoiding toxins in the nursery, but she’s looking for places to save too. Who can blame her! Her shopping list includes bassinets, crib mattresses, cloth diapers, diapering accessories, natural skin care, BPA-free bottles and more.

bassinetOne of her priciest items is this lovely Pottery Barn bassinet she’s chosen for the twins. She admitted that it’s more than she wants to spend ($299), but she can’t find many other options that are well-made. I agree that plastic bassinets are not the stablest creatures, but I suspect she’s also fallen in love with Pottery Barn’s gorgeous design! It is a beauty! Here’s the thing, her bank account really started reeling when she realized that the bassinet is going to require a custom organic mattress due to its unusual dimensions. That’s when she and her husband started wondering if they could just use the mattress that comes with the bassinet.

Happy to help, I followed her over to the item description at Pottery Barn Kids. It revealed that the mattress is a “PVC plastic shell sealed around a 100% polyurethane foam core.” No way. Double no way! PVC (vinyl) and polyurethane foam are extremely toxic. They should not be in any nursery. That’s why I listed the conventional baby mattress as #1 offender on my list of Top 10 Toxic Baby Products. Unfortunately, virtually all baby mattresses that come with bassinets, co-sleepers, and cradles are made with vinyl and polyurethane foam. Even the popular Stokke crib sleep system comes with a junky, toxic mattress made of these cheap and dangerous ingredients. Read all about the gory details at What’s Wrong with a Conventional Mattress.

onstandtallMy advice to this mom-to-be is to invest in organic baby mattresses as a #1 priority. It’s better to sacrifice organic cloth diapers for conventional cloth diapers or Pottery Barn’s gorgeous bassinet for a simpler option, putting that money into a mattress. The moses basket and rocker set we offer comes with an organic wool mattress and is more versatile than your typical bassinet. And, ultimately, if you can’t afford an organic mattress, I think it’s better to use a firm cotton quilt! Babies and toddlers spend 10-14 hours a day sleeping, inhaling air just inches away from that mattress. Make it a good one.

P.S. Don’t buy just any mattress labeled “organic”. Unlike with foods, the word “organic” is not regulated at all in children’s bedding. Do Your Homework Before Buying an Organic Mattress! In our opinion, EcoBaby’s mattresses (which are available in many sizes and can also be custom-ordered) are the simplest, healthiest choice for baby. And that’s why we offer them in our store!

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How to Swaddle an Infant: Tips & Blankets

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009

Every new parent should learn how to swaddle.  Swaddling calms fussy babies and helps them to sleep longer and to stay on their backs, reducing the risk of SIDS.  Plus, it creates a bedtime cue that’s easy for mom, dad, grandma or babysitter to recreate anywhere. 

Don’t be intimidated.  Anyone can swaddle.  If you’re pregnant, plan to ask your nurse or a relative to show you how to swaddle your newborn.  There’s nothing better than learning in person.  If you don’t have a good teacher, take 6 minutes to watch this YouTube video:  Swaddling Methods.  The video very clearly teaches two methods of swaddling, the “basic” method (which is the one I always used) and the Aussie method (which is ideal for older babies).  Showing real babies being swaddled and demonstrating with a doll, this video is the clearest, most helpful tutorial I’ve found. 

When swaddling is not working, you’ve probably either used the wrong type of blanket or are wrapping too loosely.  First of all, get the right blanket.  A good swaddling blanket is large and square.  Many receiving blankets are 40″ square, which will swaddle a newborn.  For a larger baby, you  need a larger blanket.  Buy large 47″ square receiving blankets, which can swaddle a newborn and a 10 month old.  A good swaddling blanket is also thin and stretchy.  It should be thin, because a thick blanket will not tuck in securely.  It should be stretchy so that you can make a tight swaddle, without making baby uncomfortable.  I really loved using my Aden & Anais swaddling blankets.   Now we also offer an organic version that’s cut in the same ideal dimensions.  Having the right blanket makes it easier to swaddle tightly.  A swaddled baby should look like a little burrito!

Nervous that baby will overheat?  With what we know about SIDS, you’re right to be concerned about swaddling baby in a warm blanket.  But, an ideal swaddling blanket is thin, remember?  Those made of cotton muslin are extremely breathable.  Whether it’s summer or winter, dress baby as the weather requires and swaddle, knowing that the blanket adds little additional heat.  If your baby’s ears are hot or red, or if she’s sweating, unwrap her and remove her clothing.   Then, re-swaddle in just a diaper!

Swaddling does take practice. But, in a few days you’ll be able to swaddle like a pro.  Dads, especially, are often superb swaddlers.  They don’t shy away from pulling that blanket tight!

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Preparing a Birth Pool for your Homebirth

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

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If you’ll be giving birth at home, consider using a birthing pool.  Whether or not you decide to deliver in the water, you may enjoy laboring in a warm birth pool.  At one reader’s request, I did some research for choosing and preparing your birth pool.

Your midwife may offer pool rental services.  This is an eco-friendly choice, since professional grade pools can be reused to avoid waste.  Be sure to ask questions so you understand what type of pool you’ll be using.  Will it be big enough for one or two persons?  Maybe you’ll want your partner to support you while you labor.  Are the sides comfortable to lean against and high enough for your liking? 

Also, what about toxicity?  Most birth pools are made of vinyl, a phthalate-filled plastic that emits toxic fumes.  Unfortunately, vinyl seems to be the only reasonable option for an inflatable pool, but there are ways to limit the toxicity.  A new pool should be inflated and aired outside for 3-7 days (the longer the better), which will help toxic VOC’s to release.  Your midwife probably provides a reusable pool with single-use liners.  Ask if she can air out the liner for you, or leave it with you so that you can air it out.  If your midwife’s reusable pool doesn’t include a liner, find out what cleaners she uses to disinfect the pool.  Harsh cleaners must be rinsed excessively, so your baby isn’t born into a chemical soup.  If at all possible, choose to rent a pool with a single-use liner, so cleaners aren’t necessary. 

You may also choose to purchase your own birth pool.  Don’t worry about getting one with a heater built-in.  Vinyl easily retains heat, so this isn’t a problem for most births.  One of the most popular birth pools is actually a kiddie pool!  The Aquariumfishy pool has a padded floor and high sides that make it perfect for birthing.  Moms report excellent results with this pool, which is sturdy and strong enough to lean against.  Its affordable price ($30-40) makes it single-use without the need of a liner.  But, buying and throwing out a toxic vinyl pool every time you give birth is not so eco-friendly. 

I’ve only come across one birth pool made with phthalate-free vinyl – Birth Pool in a Box Eco.  At $190, this birth pool is not cheap, but it’s certainly well-made.  I can find nothing but good reviews!  It has a seat, handles for stabilization, adjustable height and disposable liners.  You’ll still want to air out this pool, but you’ll rest a little easier knowing that the plastic is more eco-friendly and non-toxic than other options.  Buy an extra liner for use when you do a test run.  And, when you’re done, you can store it carefully for your next homebirth or sell/give it to someone else who can use it!  The plastic can be damaged by extreme heat or cold, so store at room temperature. 

After purchasing or renting your pool, you’ve got some more work to do.  You’ll want to test drive the pool.  This sounds silly until you realize how many things can go wrong!  You need a tarp to place underneath to protect your floors and discourage slipping.  Next, you’ll need a pump for inflating the pool.  Depending on your pump, it can take 30 minutes+ to inflate.  If it takes long, consider keeping your pool inflated those last 2 weeks to cut down your setup time. 

To fill your pool, you’ll need an aquarium hose or RV hose that runs to your sink.  The shorter the hose the better, so as to keep that water warm.  Add to that an adapter so that your hose can be fitted to a sink in your house.  No, you don’t want to use a garden hose instead.  There are hygenic problems with that approach!  When you fill the pool, you’ll ideally use cold water for the first bit and then go to hot.  This is so that the plastic is not damaged by exposure to scalding hot water.  Lastly, you’ll need a method for emptying and deflating the pool.  The bucket approach works, but will take a looooong time.  With a newborn at hand, this is not a good time for tedious tasks. 

So many steps!  That’s why you need to do a trail run.  The trial will give you confidence that your pool is airtight and watertight, plus it’ll ensure that you have all the right parts on hand for the big day.  Be sure to time how long setup takes, so you know during labor what to expect.  You can shop for all the various waterbirth supplies to inflate/deflate and fill/empty your birth pool at Your Waterbirth.

Enjoy your birth!

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Secondhand for Baby: What's Safe & What's Not

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

I’ve saved many a pretty penny by purchasing baby clothes, baby strollers and even a baby carrier secondhand.  If you’re pregnant and looking to buy the best, safest products for baby, I’m sure your shopping list is looking a bit pricey.  Here are some tips from Healthy Child Healthy World that will help you cut costs where it’s safe to do so:

Bath Products:

Safe: Used baby bathtubs are fine as long as the lining isn’t full of mold or mildew.

Not Safe: If the tub has an odor of either of these, say no thanks because they can be hard to remove. Also, skip secondhand bath seats, bath rings, and inflatable tubs since they have been responsible for many deaths among babies.

Healthy Child Recommendation: In addition to mold and mildew, look for scratches or other signs of wear and tear in the plastic. Old plastics are more apt to leach chemicals and the scratches can also harbor for bacteria.

Car Seats:

Safe: A car seat that has all its original parts and labels, has never been in a crash, and fits your car and child is OK.

Not Safe: Products more than six years old are outdated, and most likely too run down to be considered safe.

Healthy Child Recommendation: It is dangerous (and illegal in some states) to reuse a car seat that has been in an accident. Only accept a hand-me-down from someone you trust. Don’t ever buy one from a yard sale or thrift store.

Cribs:

Safe: Any crib that was manufactured after the year 2000 should be fine, as long as it is not broken or missing any pieces.

Not Safe: Prior to 2000, cribs were held to different safety standards, and will not be acceptable for your baby, even if you slept soundly in them. Any crib with cutouts in the headboard, and corner posts over sixteen inches pose serious risks for a child’s safety.

Healthy Child Recommendation: Use the money you saved on the crib for a nice organic mattress (or at least an organic mattress cover). Your baby will spend most of her daily hours with her face nestled into her mattress.  Make it a healthy one!

High Chairs:

Safe: Say yes to a hand-me-down high chair if it has a five-point harness to prevent your child from climbing out and a fixed crotch post that prevents him/her from sliding out the bottom.

Not Safe: Old-fashioned wooden high chairs with removable trays or arms are considered dangerous and uncomfortable for the baby, in addition to not being up to newer product safety standards.

Strollers:

Safe: Strollers made after 2007 when new safety standard were published are safe.

Not Safe: Any stroller made prior to that date, or has missing, loose, or broken

pieces is not.

Healthy Child Recommendation: Accept the stroller, but ditch the PVC rain guard.

Toys:

Safe: Stuffed animals and most children’s books make fine hand-me-downs. In the case of lead in used toys, there are many home lead inspection kits which can be purchased for under twenty dollars which will tell you whether the toys have surface lead contamination.

Unsafe: Avoid any toys that are chipped, as well as any small parts that can fit through a tube of toilet paper, since they present serious choking hazards for small children.

Healthy Child Recommendation: Toss stuffed animals in a dryer on high heat or in a freezer for 48 hours to kill any dust mites (especially if your child has dust allergies or asthma). Make sure books don’t smell moldy. Politely decline plastic toys (especially if they are worn or if they are made from PVC (#3), PC (#7) or an unknown plastic).

Used Clothing:

Safe: As long as buttons and snaps are on tight and none of the thread is unraveling from the fabric, the used clothing is fine.

Unsafe: Pass on any article of clothing with drawstrings because they pose a strangulation hazard.

Healthy Child Recommendation: Recently, many children developed rashes and skin burns from children’s tag-less clothing. Watch for these items and monitor your child for any reactions.

by Janelle Sorensen

Courtesy of Healthy Child Healthy World: a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit inspiring parents to protect young children from harmful chemicals.

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Essentials for Baby's First 6 Months

Tuesday, December 9th, 2008

That first pregnancy, there’s so much to do!  Research about pregnancy, birth, and baby care basics.  Plan the nursery.  Prepare for breastfeeding.  Think about your parenting style, caregiver arrangements, vaccinations, and more.  Phew! 

And, then there’s the work of aquiring all that baby stuff.  I think registering lists found in most magazines and baby super-stores are overwhelming and designed to make you spend, spend, spend.  What do you really need for those first 6 months with baby?  Here’s my list:

  1. A Carseat.  An infant carseat, like Graco’s snugride, makes errands possible without disturbing baby’s sleep.  Priceless.
  2. A Baby Carrier.  What’s easier to store than a stroller, more soothing to baby and easier to use in crowded public spaces?  Answer: a baby carrier.   Experience the freedom and bonding experience that this centuries-old tradition creates.  If money is tight, skip the stroller, at least for now. 
  3. A Sleep Space.  This may be your own bed.  But do purchase or choose (so you’re ready to purchase) an additional place for baby to sleep alone and unattended.  A moses basket on a rocking stand (available at EuphoriaBaby.com) is absolutely ideal for the first few months.  A crib will be used until baby is 2-3 years old.  Be sure to buy a non-toxic mattress and mattress protectors.  Conventional mattresses filled with polyurethane foam and conventional vinyl mattress pads are completely unsafe and should be banned.
  4. Clothing.  Everyone loves to gift baby clothes.  See what you get for your baby shower before stocking up.  Choose simple, unfussy options so baby is comfortable and happy.  Stick to only natural fibers (cotton, wool, silk), which are soft and breathable.  Buy at most one pair of soft leather baby shoes for 3-6 months , but realize that these are just for looks, as baby is not likely to be crawling yet.
  5. Diapers.  Save money, save the environment and avoid chemical exposure by cloth diapering your baby.  I suggest starting with 18 diapers for a newborn.  It’s possible you may need more, but better to start with 18 and add as needed, than buy more than you  need.  18 One-Size BumGenius diapers will last most children from newborn to potty training.   
  6. Feeding Supplies:  If you plan to breastfeed, buy 3 nursing bras: one to wear, one in the wash and one that’s clean should you spring a leak.  Also needed: nursing cream, nursing pads, 3 or so bottles for occasional use (Adiri’s are a great choice for breastfeeding moms), and a breast pump (an affordable, non-electric pump will do fine for the occasional, weekly bottle).   Add non-toxic bowls, spoons and natural fiber bibs later, when baby is ready for food. 
  7. Pacifiers.  Start with 2 pacifiers.  Even if you plan to discourage pacifier use, you’ll want them handy for difficult situations in the middle of the night or when you’re unable to pick-up your crying child (such as in the car).  If your child takes the to pacifier (which I think is a very helpful tool), you’ll want more than 2, but wait until you’re certain what kind baby likes.  Be sure to buy BPA-free choices, like our natural rubber pacifiers at EuphoriaBaby.com.  You’ll also want a sturdy pacifier clip, if your child likes the pacifier. 
  8. A few Toys.  Keep them simple and natural.  2-3 wood and cloth teethers and rattles from reputable companies such as Haba and Selecta.  2-3 soft baby toys such as cloth blocks, balls, and manipulatives.  2-3 wooden baby toys that make clacking sounds or squeak or spin.  Avoid plastic.  Avoid overstimulating products that have a million things for baby to do.  Avoid electronic toys with lights and recorded sounds.  Natural sounds created by your own voice or a real bell are more nurturing and don’t require dangerous and wasteful batteries.  Above all, avoid excess!  Your baby does not need a new toy to discover every week.  Young children learn from repetition, are soothed by familiarity and are learning from your example about how many things they should want/need.  Excess ruins the magic of play, while creating more work for you in cleaning and storing.

What about baby swings, bouncer seats, play mats, exersaucers, crib toys, and the list goes on and on?  Generally, Americans buy babies too many toys and gadgets designed to engage the baby so the caregiver can do something else.  Marketers tell you that you must have these things to survive with baby, or failing that, they tell you that these things will improve baby’s life.  Don’t believe that last line, one second.  You are your baby’s best source of stimulation, education and brain-boosting interaction any day!

Little ones are awake and ready to engage for short periods of time each day.  Be with your child during those times.  Carry her.  Lay on the floor with her.  Talk to her.  You will never get this time back, and you will never regret these moments.  When you must get something done, put her in the carrier so that she can be stimulated by watching your tasks, all the while able to go to sleep when she’s ready.  Then, when she sleeps, put her down and do that something else, which required your baby-free energy.

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